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Which tallahasee line should I caption this year’s clayberta art with
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what I was talking abt earlier. we have fully looped back around and away from feminism, societally, whereas before it was very Feminism 101 to acknowledge that many parts of existing as a woman in a misogynistic society are painful and upsetting. not that being a woman is Inherently Negative in a bubble. but that living on this earth, in the conditions we're living in, is hostile to women. and that gender is a performance. that many of the Staples Of Femininity as accepted by society are things that you have to create and perform and mold artificially and aren't inherent, that COMPLAINING about day to day difficulties of existing as a woman is something that you're allowed to do. acknowledging these basic, again, feminism 101 things, that something tied to womanhood is more time consuming or more expensive or more dangerous Because Of The Problems. does not CREATE the problems. that when women complain about having to perform femininity, they are not, in fact, oppressing themselves. the call does not come from inside the fucking house. saying that you HAVE suffered does not fucking equate that you believe you SHOULD have suffered.
like I could talk about this for hours. how braindead and one-dimensional the Takes are getting. "being a woman is looking in the mirror and going fuck yeah i'm a woman" damn. I guess any negative experiences you have by living in a misogynistic world... are your fault if you are anything but positive? "you don't actually want liberation" we've fully gone back to telling feminists "you WANT to be oppressed" when anything negative about our society is pointed out. it's not real until I say it out loud, I guess, and then I'm actually the one who caused it. if anybody expresses any unhappiness with how they're treated or the status quo or the language and culture surrounding womanhood and femininity. they've created it, right that second. they invented it just now. it wasn't a problem before somebody complained, right? also trans women aren't braindead zombies who just follow the flow of whatever cis women around them say. I am pretty fucking sure they are very much aware of pain, and are MORE than aware of the swirling torrent of misogyny and standards of femininity than anybody else. actually. and I am pretty sure someone complaining on tumblr that being a woman means always putting on a performance is going to make someone change their mind about transitioning. also "performing femininity" as a necessity to being treated well as a woman is not fucking NEWS to your Local Trans Woman. I AM PRETTY SURE SHE GETS THE CONCEPT. using trans women as a scapegoat for this braindead perspective on gender politics is spineless, meritless, and pathetic.
#how I feel about my gender is not the same as how I feel about the living conditions of my gender#when I saw that post I screenshotted here I literally sat w my mouth open for a minute#sent it to my friends and was like am I fucking crazy. is this what we're doing now#Forced Positivity and that there is no war in ba sing se and actually#you're ruining children's lives if you complain about misogyny on twitter#I don't HAVE to tell little girls about the downsides because they are already being mistreated#before they have even heard the word 'misogyny' let alone know what it means#you do not have to be fucking happy all the time about the cards you're dealt.#you don't live in a bubble where it's just you and your mirror and your pretty dress and nothing bad has ever happened to you#unfortunately bitch. we will have negative experiences that are in fact. part of the package of being a woman#and IGNORING them doesn't make them not exist. actually they will continue to remain status quo unless acknowledged#sergle.txt#I see so much rhetoric that is JUST old-fashioned gender ideals being presented with liberal language on tiktok#that is just telling women that womanhood is just being a girllll and loving pretty things and being kind and gentleeeee and nurturing#and not working and just like being wholesome and being happy and being a light in ppl's lives and just LOVING LOVING LOVING being a woman#so if for even one second. you don't love it. you are actually failing at being a woman#if you complain about the standards for shaving or putting on makeup. which used to be Baby's First Feminism online#that's actually just you creating problems. you're not supposed to acknowledge it. you're supposed to shut up and smile into the mirror.
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Every time my neighbours blast their selection of really bad music from 10 pm to 5 am I become a war criminal in my mind. Maybe in the future tumblr will have a feature that allows someone like op to judge me at the Thought Hague.
Man, if my neighbors blasted their selection of really good music at 2AM, I'd still be thinking shit that would land me in the gallows next to you at Crimethink Nuremberg.
#this is why i do not EVER EVER fuck with ''are you mad at me? 🥺'' people#it's a rhetorical question because they can't even handle if you're mildly irritated#i say this as someone who grew up with a parent that was always angry and often very cruel#having other adults in my life get kinda pissed at me and shrug it off was important#it demonstrated that for most people anger came in degrees and was morally neutral unless it was weaponized#if you're trying to create spaces for kids and teenagers to safely express anger you can't tell adults it's a cop who lives in their head#maybe this is only clear to me because i grew out my backbone and am immune to the christian brainrot that precipitates this shit#but like. 🥺👉👈 isn't an immutable trait. you do in fact have to try to accept that people won't like antisocial things you do#if you're going to be a dick and blast music late enjoy that shit instead of trying to guilt people into liking you#assbox#anonymous
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Red Rocks I'm So Jealous
#sleep token#how much are they and how much would i have to pay someone to get it for me#this is rhetorical. unless.#no theyre limited let red rocks have them. but still. sleep token blease.
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i actually feel so incredibly uncomfortable and isolated in this space right now and i know that’s silly because of how many people there are just like me who share the same feelings but idk…the fact that people even think this is defensible behavior is making me feel sick
#nothing quite like being reminded how disposable you are#during the pandemic that set the stage for everyone to show exactly how much they don’t care about disabled people#i’m tired of people not taking this shit seriously and i’m incredibly angry about it#because i know y’all who are reckless and ignorant and think you’re invincible are going to be the same ones begging to be let in#when they ultimately become disabled too.#and you know what? i’m not ready to give those people grace yet#been screaming it for years but nobody listens until it’s too late#have already had people with obvious long covid who spouted ableist rhetoric this entire pandemic#come to me asking for advice#and honestly? i don’t think you deserve advice#i have so much empathy but i’m TIRED#i don’t fucking care anymore i get that we’ve been lied to this entire time but if you actually wanted to do the research you would#and since i know nobody cares about protecting others#i think you would at least care about protecting yourself considering how selfish you’ve proven yourselves to be#this is at the entire world and everyone who refuses to wake up to the fact that we are screwed#disabled people have been telling you this entire time and it’s still a fuckimg joke#and it will only become serious when it affects them directly#i’m so angry right now#and honestly? if you feel like this is about you at all? in any way? that’s your sign#do fucking better. TEST WHEN YOURE SIXK#stop fucking going out when you’re sick unless it’s necessary#i’m so so tired
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are you arguing that bi mike believers, unlabeled mike believers, and those who are undecided are homophobic?
no. i’m not arguing that any person or sets of people are homophobic. i do think that there are certain avenues of thought that come up often in arguments against a definitive gay mike reading which stem from homophobic biases that, given the benefit of the doubt, the people arguing them may not realize are homophobic or even realize that they hold those biases.
believing that mike is bi or being undecided about it doesn’t mean you’re homophobic. obviously. however, plainly acknowledging that mike canonically does not exhibit attraction to women and then insisting that he could still be attracted to women in spite of that, to me, indicates a (possibly subconscious) bias against men who are not attracted to women. if your instinct when confronted with a character who presents a categorical lack of opposite-gender attraction, concurrent with active displays of same-gender attraction, is to round up every possible alternative explanation, all equally hypothetical and unsupported by canon, to avoid coming to the logical conclusion of that specific narrative dichotomy (homosexuality), then all i’m asking is that you examine what biases you might be holding onto that lead you to that reaction.
#if you do believe mike was attracted to el then this is not about you. but this ask was in reference to my tags on james' post#in which i was talking about people who believe mike is bi but was simply never attracted to el. THAT viewpoint is the one that makes no#narrative sense unless you're holding some sort of personal preference or bias toward bi mike bc the only POSSIBLE claim for bi mike in#canon is his apparent attraction to el. if you just like bi mike better it's not necessarily homophobia. you might just want him to be bi#bc you're bi. but if that's the case then PLEASE i beg you stop bringing headcanons to canon debates. they're irrelevant.#(there are other homophobic biases that come into play when people start insisting that mike MUST have been attracted to el bc of certain#things he did or ways he acted that largely come back to gold star gay rhetoric and a general ignorance of the nuances of the homosexual#experience but i've talked about that before and i won't get into it here)#thanks for the ask anon i love going off about gay mike#gay mike wheeler#mikesbasementasks
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i think people need to be told more often that not everything you read applies to you personally or fits in your worldview. take what you want from a random message or just ignore it
#idk man#sometimes i facepalm when people engage in a personal post#of something that happened to them and that’s how they cope/what they experienced#if that doesn’t align with you#just ignore it#unless it’s harmful rhetoric#people need to engage less w things#sticky notes
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I’ve seen a lot of anti-Indian racism under the guise of “feminism” lately, you can’t just spout imperial propaganda then say “but I only mean the men because they’re horrible sexists” and have it suddenly be totally fine.
“But sexism is a massive problem in India” it’s a massive problem everywhere, singling out non white countries as if they’re automatically worse is not feminism. It’s not only racist but it ignores how bad sexism is in the west right now.
India’s president is a woman, Americas president is a rapist and a convicted felon.
Your racist bullshit isn’t helping Indian women, it’s only helping the same white supremacists who want to take away their rights.
#you aren’t a feminist unless you actually stand for all women#spouting racist rhetoric doesn’t help indian women no matter how much you try to delude yourself into believing it does#feminism#racism#white feminism
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"it's 20xx, why are people still doing __" elicits powerful dislike in me. Unlike bad arguments that still have some logical substance, "it's 20xx" is undisguised eradication drive. "The people who disagree with me on this issue should simply vanish as the arc of history bends towards justice. I'm impatient they're still around, having opinions that require evidence or persuasion to change, instead of going extinct on the schedule I desire". I find it thoughtless and dehumanizing.
Also, obviously, completely agnostic of the value of the argument. Your most despised enemy could say it in the same tone, if they thought the tide was with them.
#i'm choosing to say this in 2023 when it's less of a thing & my dislike is moderate#instead of in 2019 or so when I would not have been able to contain the depth of my contempt for this category of 'rhetoric'#rambl#ahem. also I will say. the personal situation that finally ejected this post out of me is sufficiently bizarre and fractal that#there's no way your read on what's motivating my bitchiness now is accurate unless you know me very well
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i slept like 12 hrs last night. can we get a "wahoo!" for the world's most sleep deprived man finally getting sum rest
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#Charlie Kirk dude . . . . . .#if you want more women to be conservative then actually listen to them instead of pushing the traditional marriage viewpoint#where you shame women for pursuing careers and degrade women in their early thirties#and say it's impossible to reach women to make them conservative unless they're married with kids#ESPECIALLY#since your own life makes a hypocrite out of you#women are tired of being told to get married and have kids#women are tired of being blamed for low birth rates and marriages#especially when there's no reflection on the men's part to figure out if they might actually have a part in chasing women away from that li#life#women are tired of this rhetoric and you will only put them up in arms if you continue to criticize them#for choosing to have careers over families#By being this way you sound more like a poison pill for conservatives- trying to chase away women rather than appeal to them#the traditional life you hold to was not because of innate biology but because of necessity and later society#when women were given the chance in WWII to work they did so gladly and had to be forced back into the home#We are people with thoughts and dreams and aspirations#and those don't all point to motherhood#stop it please I beg of you#telling women they are supposed to married with kids will not fix the nuclear family#telling women they're past their prime in their thirties will not encourage more families#you only give them ammo to dislike you and refuse to listen to you
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I love how you can purposely cater you internet experience to block most politics so you can mentally detox since your media consumption was becoming unhealthy, and still have a whole week of attempting to regain your hope in humanity become completely undone by wanting to eat lunch with your mom (ramble in tags, feel free to ignore; take care of yourselves first <3)
#politics#us politics#tags so people can block this post#it's just so cool and awesome that things work like that#i was genuinely doing so much better#i was engaging with news in a healthier way#i was fixing my focus on what to do moving forward#but then i had the audacity to want to eat lunch with my mother instead of holing up in my room#she turned on fox news and i tuned it out... talking about stuff with them always turns into debates and its mentality exhausting#so i generally just keep my mouth shut unless asked#but then she started commenting on the news out loud#and so being a personable person i did my best to respond#they were talking about mass deportation of ''illegal criminals'' and she asked out loud why they havent sent them away already#so i said “oh well its expensive and there's not always places that are willing to take them”... left my opinion on the sentiment out of it#that was the WRONG thing to say apparently#devolved into a debate where she ultimately said “ok but it was a rhetorical question and i didnt actually want an answer”#how was i supposed to know that????? im the only person in the room??? thats not what rhetorical questions are used for??????#so we moved on from the topic#she said something along the lines of “pff and people come in illegally and still want to seek asylum”#so again i speak up#told her (with a quick google search to back it up) that people can either apply for asylum at the border or after entering illegally#as long as its within a year of entering#that was ALSO THE WRONG THING TO SAY#she reiterated that she still wasn't asking and added “im just watching the news; i dont want to google anything”#and im like...#...one; she mentioned in her “thinking out loud” rambles that she's aware that i dont like to talk about this stuff with her#but that this stuff is important to talk about... which i took as a “why won't you talk with me?”#so ouch#but also... whY ARE YOU WATCHING THE NEWS IF YOU DON'T CARE TO VERIFY ANY OF IT#im out of tags to ramble in but I'm still so hurt and mad and i have been reminded how little people care about compassion and factuality
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What do non-spiritual/occultist people even do with tarot decks?
#I'd ask this in a larger account where I'm likely to get answers but I'm scared#So this is more of a rhetorical post. Unless someone knows
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I think it's like inherently biphobic to be against bisexuals usinf butch/femme lolz
#unless ur really uneducated about it but. uneducated ppl who are not biphobic would enquire in good faith and be open to learning#and many of you just are not at all open to learning bcuz u vehemently refuse the idea bisexuals can be butch/femme and it's biphobic#and also radfem rhetoric too tbh!#bisexual#☽☾#bi butch#bisexual butch#bi femme#bisexual femme#butchfemme
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so now that there has been a spike in antisemitic hate crimes (in some areas rising over 1000%), synagogues have been vandalized, firebombed, and literally razed, jews have been assaulted in public, jewish businesses have been vandalized, jewish homes and businesses have been marked with the star of david, and a man broke into his jewish neighbor's home intending to murder the entire family for being jewish, are we gonna get an apology from the people who were mocking jews for being afraid of an increase in antisemitism after oct. 7th?
(this is, of course, a rhetorical question. we all know that those people never cared about jews.)
#seraph speaks#people were literally more upset abt the wizard game goblins than synagogues being bombed#unsurprising really.#disappointing but unsurprising.#sorry but i'm not gonna shut up about this#bc jews around the world are currently fearing for our lives (again)#and gentiles have been dead silent about it#so like... maybe start caring about antisemitism eh?#and maybe start tamping down on antisemitic rhetoric in your leftist spaces.#bc i got news for you. u are not immune to being antisemitic.#as much as you may want to say you are One Of The Good Ones#we cannot trust you unless you actually make good on that#and take an active role in calling out and combating antisemitism
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Did you know…? There are 200 people followed my blog cuz of megaman…there are more mm fans out there than u might think
#cak3otalks#the did you know here being#rhetorical#there is no way for you to have known that#unless you are me#anyways#hiiii :3
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